I have decided to embrace a radical softness. I want to be serene, gentle, and sweet. No more harboring anger or getting stressed out or being impatient. Obviously I don't mean the feminist form of radical softness. I don't believe in toxic masculinity for starters, and furthermore, this is all about femininity. I want to … Continue reading Radical, Sweet Softness
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Public Vs Private
Today on Instagram I wrote about how masculine the public sphere is. From work to politics, public life is filled with conflict. Fighting through that conflict is masculine. I prefer the gentle, serene, and feminine. I have a fiery personality sometimes, but I like to stay at home and be at peace. I'm not saying … Continue reading Public Vs Private
2024 Goals
1. Decorate my home in a more eclectic style. I want to be true to my own vision - like when I ordered a handmade, rainbow collection of jellyfish for my window. 2. Publish a book. I have an art book and a poetry book in the works. I am obsessed with collage, and I … Continue reading 2024 Goals
Change Over The Years
It's weird to think about, but when my husband and I first married we were egalitarian. I submitted to no one. My husband and I were equal in all decisions. I cleaned, but I didn't do any cooking. I was immodest. I was obsessed with college and longed to go to grad school like I … Continue reading Change Over The Years
Real Men Support Their Families
There is no such thing as a right without responsibilities. Men have the right to be leaders in their homes and make the decisions. They have the right to be head of household. But with that right comes responsibilities, and one of the biggest responsibilities is the responsibility to support the family. If a woman … Continue reading Real Men Support Their Families
Husbands Are Commanded to Love Their Wives
A husband should love his wife like Christ loved the Church and be willing to lay his life down for her. But love isn't just who you die for. It's who you live for. Men with unhappy wives should ask themselves whether the decisions they make benefit the whole family, or only him. Do you … Continue reading Husbands Are Commanded to Love Their Wives
Working on Modesty and Purity of Heart
My husband doesn't like me to wear revealing clothes and wants me to have a modest look. Some husbands like to show their wives off, but my husband takes more of the stance that I am his, and no other guys should see anything. In a way, I really like this. I don't have to … Continue reading Working on Modesty and Purity of Heart
Staying Sexy for My Husband
I want to look my best for my husband. Every wife should endeavor to be beautiful and sexy for her husband. Part of that is watching your weight. In my case, I don't have to lose much because my husband likes me as is. But I want to be someone he can show off. I … Continue reading Staying Sexy for My Husband
Don’t Deny Your Husband Sex
I might catch some heat for this one, but when you marry, you gift your body to your husband. The Bible is very clear that denying your spouse sex for any reason besides an agreed upon fast from it to pray is wrong. But honestly, even if you're not Christian, you shouldn't deny your husband … Continue reading Don’t Deny Your Husband Sex
Be a Trophy Wife
Every man wants a wife he can show off and be proud of. This is multifaceted. The first element is looks. Keep your hair lustrous and soft. Wear makeup if he likes it, or keep a bare face if he doesn't. Watch your weight. Many women don't want to hear this because it can be … Continue reading Be a Trophy Wife
Life at Home 