I have decided to embrace a radical softness. I want to be serene, gentle, and sweet. No more harboring anger or getting stressed out or being impatient. Obviously I don't mean the feminist form of radical softness. I don't believe in toxic masculinity for starters, and furthermore, this is all about femininity. I want to … Continue reading Radical, Sweet Softness
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Home Vs Career
I just want to gush for a minute about how happy I am at home. I am so glad I don't have to go to work. Thank God my husband is a good provider, and I can stay in my home where I feel most comfortable and enjoy being. I get to be with my … Continue reading Home Vs Career
Public Vs Private
Today on Instagram I wrote about how masculine the public sphere is. From work to politics, public life is filled with conflict. Fighting through that conflict is masculine. I prefer the gentle, serene, and feminine. I have a fiery personality sometimes, but I like to stay at home and be at peace. I'm not saying … Continue reading Public Vs Private
Black Americans Who Buy from Companies like Temu and Shein Are Hypocrites
How do you think these companies get their prices so low? They use slave labor from a people the Chinese imprison. You can't complain about how wrong your people's slavery was and how awful it was and then turn around and support someone else's awful slavery for low prices. Whites who buy from these companies … Continue reading Black Americans Who Buy from Companies like Temu and Shein Are Hypocrites
Change Over The Years
It's weird to think about, but when my husband and I first married we were egalitarian. I submitted to no one. My husband and I were equal in all decisions. I cleaned, but I didn't do any cooking. I was immodest. I was obsessed with college and longed to go to grad school like I … Continue reading Change Over The Years
Masculinity is Wonderful
I'm so tired of hearing the phrase toxic masculinity. There is no such thing. Masculinity is inherently positive. If a man is controlling or violent, that's not masculinity. Those are character flaws, flaws that many women have too. What is masculinity? It's the beautiful thing that makes men men. Masculinity is daring and bold, uafraid … Continue reading Masculinity is Wonderful
Housewives Should Be Beautiful
If you are a woman, in particular a stay at home wife or girlfriend, you should be as beautiful as you can. Every girl has different assets to work with. Put your best foot forward. Even on a day you are staying home and cleaning all day, you should look feminine and well put together. … Continue reading Housewives Should Be Beautiful
Husbands Are Commanded to Love Their Wives
A husband should love his wife like Christ loved the Church and be willing to lay his life down for her. But love isn't just who you die for. It's who you live for. Men with unhappy wives should ask themselves whether the decisions they make benefit the whole family, or only him. Do you … Continue reading Husbands Are Commanded to Love Their Wives
Staying Sexy for My Husband
I want to look my best for my husband. Every wife should endeavor to be beautiful and sexy for her husband. Part of that is watching your weight. In my case, I don't have to lose much because my husband likes me as is. But I want to be someone he can show off. I … Continue reading Staying Sexy for My Husband
Don’t Deny Your Husband Sex
I might catch some heat for this one, but when you marry, you gift your body to your husband. The Bible is very clear that denying your spouse sex for any reason besides an agreed upon fast from it to pray is wrong. But honestly, even if you're not Christian, you shouldn't deny your husband … Continue reading Don’t Deny Your Husband Sex
Life at Home 