Category: Christian

Radical, Sweet Softness

I have decided to embrace a radical softness. I want to be serene, gentle, and sweet. No more harboring anger or getting stressed out or being impatient. Obviously I don't mean the feminist form of radical softness. I don't believe in toxic masculinity for starters, and furthermore, this is all about femininity. I want to … Continue reading Radical, Sweet Softness

2024 Goals

1. Decorate my home in a more eclectic style. I want to be true to my own vision - like when I ordered a handmade, rainbow collection of jellyfish for my window. 2. Publish a book. I have an art book and a poetry book in the works. I am obsessed with collage, and I … Continue reading 2024 Goals

Change Over The Years

It's weird to think about, but when my husband and I first married we were egalitarian. I submitted to no one. My husband and I were equal in all decisions. I cleaned, but I didn't do any cooking. I was immodest. I was obsessed with college and longed to go to grad school like I … Continue reading Change Over The Years

Veiling

Wearing veils every day has really been a phenomenal reminder to submit to my husband, read scripture more, and pray. I have several beautiful veils, and I plan to get more. Even though headcovering in Christianity has nothing to do with modesty (which is why I don't hide all my hair), it still helps me … Continue reading Veiling

For the First Time in About a Decade…

I am not wearing a dress! I haven't gone back to wearing pants. Instead I am wearing a skirt! New look. I still believe (personal conviction) that women should not wear pants with the exception of wearing them under their dresses when it's cold. So you won't see me in jeans or running around in … Continue reading For the First Time in About a Decade…

Husbands Are Commanded to Love Their Wives

A husband should love his wife like Christ loved the Church and be willing to lay his life down for her. But love isn't just who you die for. It's who you live for. Men with unhappy wives should ask themselves whether the decisions they make benefit the whole family, or only him. Do you … Continue reading Husbands Are Commanded to Love Their Wives

Working on Modesty and Purity of Heart

My husband doesn't like me to wear revealing clothes and wants me to have a modest look. Some husbands like to show their wives off, but my husband takes more of the stance that I am his, and no other guys should see anything. In a way, I really like this. I don't have to … Continue reading Working on Modesty and Purity of Heart

Don’t Deny Your Husband Sex

I might catch some heat for this one, but when you marry, you gift your body to your husband. The Bible is very clear that denying your spouse sex for any reason besides an agreed upon fast from it to pray is wrong. But honestly, even if you're not Christian, you shouldn't deny your husband … Continue reading Don’t Deny Your Husband Sex

The Most Important Thing to Know

What's something you believe everyone should know. I'd be lying if I said the answer was anything other than Jesus Christ. He is our salvation, and all that stands between humanity and a roasting fire. If you become His disciple, you will enter heaven. If you do not, you will burn for eternity. I say … Continue reading The Most Important Thing to Know