My Husband is Possessive and That’s a Good Thing

Men are wired to be territorial. It’s part of masculinity. A strong, masculine man who is interested in you will naturally want to keep you for himself. My husband, for instance, doesn’t like for me to wear short skirts or low cut dresses. Yes, he likes to look at me in those things, but he doesn’t want other men to look at me in them. I like that. My body belongs to my husband. I belong to my husband. I would not want a man who wanted to share me.

A man who loves you is a possessive man, and a certain amount of jealousy is healthy. We as a society shame men for their natural drive to protect and claim. But do you really want a man who doesn’t care if you dress provocatively? A man who doesn’t care if you go to lunch with another man or accept his phone number? Who doesn’t care if you look at other men online or in person? Who doesn’t care if another man stares at you lustfully? I don’t want that. I don’t want that at all.

I am glad I was claimed by a strong man who keeps me for himself.

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