We all owe something to other people. We live in a community. And if you are married, you owe your husband sex. He’s not some random person. He’s your partner for life. The relationship between husband and wife is special. It’s like nothing else on Earth because it reflects the relationship of Christ and the Church, His bride. Just as the church submits to Christ, so too should wives submit to their husbands.
Some people object to this idea, saying my body, my choice. These women are correct. It is their body, and it is their choice. But that doesn’t mean all choices are equal. Some choices are wrong. And denying your husband sex is wrong. A woman absolutely has the right to tell her husband no to sex and if she says no, it must be respected. But choices have consequences. Rejecting the men they are supposed to love and leaving them dissatisfied is going to come back to bite these women. So many are divorced or in miserable marriages, but they don’t want to hear any advice contrary to the feminist narrative. The feminist narrative is obviously not working for many of these unhappy women drowning in stress and divorce papers. But they don’t want to try anything new like self sacrifice.
Sex can be beautiful, wonderful, powerful, and emotional. But sometimes, for a myriad of reasons, we just don’t want it. And that’s okay, but if the man you love still needs some, you can do it for him. You might even find that once you start, you get into the mood. Make love to make him happy.
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