Are you seeking security or adventure?
Adventure is wonderful. Growing up I thought I would live boldly. Honestly though, as a grown woman, I crave security. I want physical security. Knowing that I’m safe feels good. I crave economic security as well. And I crave security in the form of stability. As a child I could not foresee that I would have a mood disorder as an adult, and that travel would become a struggle. That’s not to say I don’t like taking vacation, but overseas travel is difficult for me. I prefer to stay in the US, and I avoid flying alone.
Security makes my heart flutter. Stress gets to me easily. I feel fragile a lot of the time. Having Security, which my husband gives me, is fairly vital to my wellbeing.